Contributed by Harika Mahalakshmi
Ammailaki marriage ki mundu amma tho unde relation kanna nanna tho unde anubandame yekkuva. kani after marriage aa situation ae change ayepotundi. appudu telustundi amma tho bond, appati varaku amma em chesina pedda ga pattinchukoni manam appude amma value ni gurthinchadam start chestam. idi ammaila life lo jagige oka big change. aa change ni chusak amma tho unna memories gurthostai. ala oka 10 different feelings of girls vi chudama mari.
1. Late night gossips
Night bed time ki mundu ala amma pakkana kurchuni day motham lo jarigina activities ni share chesukovadam lo unna happiness marendulonu undadu. entha friends unna kuda konni gossips ni amma tho matrame cheppukogalam. amma entha tired ga unna kuda chala patience tho avvani vintundi. kani partner tho avvani share chesukolem... chepina vinaremo!!!
2. Love and caring
Manam morning 7am ki lechina leka 10am ki aina, after 12pm appudina oka pilupu tho mana kosam oka cup of coffea & plate of breakfast ready ga untai. mana room aela vadilesi vellina evening ki motham organised ga unchutundi. mana things em kanipinchaka poina sare easy ga find out chestundi. aa love and caring after marriage yekkada dorakadu.
3. Own free space
Intlo unnappudu mana mood bagolenappudu manalni ardam chesukune di amma matrame. appudina manalni manam social media ki duram ga single ga mana own world lo unna yevariki elanti answers cheyyana avasaram ledu. amma ardam chesukuntundi... million questions adagadu, disturb cheyyadu.
4. Amma cheti vanta
Amma vanta lo, avakaya lo eppatiki taggani ruchi untundi ani avaro annaru. amma chesina vanta inko two chapatis yekkuva ga tinna emi kadu. manam diet lo unna sare aa food manam chala happy ga tinachu. inko two extra spoons ghee kuda manaki weight ivvadu. ala amma vantani world's best chef cooking ani paeru peetesam. marriage ayyaka telustundi aa special.
5. The way you are
amma mundu manam elanti avcting lu cheyyanavasaram ledu. chesina kuda amma easy ga kanipettestundi, ade amma ante. ilage undaali, ilage tinali, ilage dress chesukovali ani em undavu. mana own way lo manam undedi first amma daggare. kani yela tinalo, yela undalo matram cheptundi. with her, you are YOU.
6. Emotional connect
Mana kallaloki chusi mana mood ni cheppestundi amma. mana mood swings ni easy ga kanipetti danika venaka reason ni kuda identify chestundi. fake smiles, tears ila amina sare kudirite matladi solve chestundi. leka ame okka hug mana badani antha teercheystundi. andukante she is your mother & you are a part of her.
7. First sharing
Before marriage mana life lo jarigina good or bad, big or small yelantidi aina manam mundu ga share chesukunedi amma thone. marriage ayye vere city ko, vere country ko vellipotam, amma ki duram ga vellipotam. ameni frequent ga meet avvalem. mana things ni share chesukolem. andariki telisina tarwata eppudo last lo ameki telustundi.
8. Meeting constraints
before marriage ala appatiki appudu anukoni shopping ko, movie ko, function ko vellipotam.. but after marriage ala kaadu. amma ni kalavante mundu ga plan chesukovali. day, date, time anni decide ayyi distance chusukuni appaudu decide avvali.
9. Her scolding
Avunu amma tidete manam chala carefee ga teesukuntam. ila vini ala vadilestam. but in laws home lo avarina chinna mata anna chivariki better half anna kuda tega feel ayyepotam. antethuku mana intlo amma kakunda avaru anna kopam teychukuntam. ade amma em anna no feels re...infact sometimes maname amma guidance ni korukuntam kuda.
10. Frequent calls
College ki velli leka ala friends tho bayatiki velli cheppina time konchem cross aina sare okate phone calls, phone calls. mana phone ki rest ae undadu. konni sarlu manake irritation vastundi amma cheysey calls mida. kani ade marriage aite amma ki frequent ga kadu. just day ki oka sari call cheyyadanike time chusukovalsi vastundi. what a change...
Friends amma love ni replace cheysey love inkoti undadu. amma chupinche affection and selflessness ni avaru chupinchaleru. so, amma unnapude love her, value her, appreciate her and show her your gratitude in every possible way. other than this she doesn't need anything else.
