Contributed by Vaishnavi K
Pelli choopulu ayyaaka nachadam .. nachakapovadam chala common. Kaani, nachina tharvatha kuda nachaledhu ani reject avvadam is something that will hit you hard no matter how strong you are. Though, this (rejection after saying ok) has also become pretty common these days, here's a heartfelt letter from a girl who experienced a similar situation.
"General ga eh ammayi ki ainaa pelli chupulu ane Oka situation vastundi life lo.Naku kuda vachayi. Chala biscuit ayyay.Na Valla kavochu, abbay Valla kavochu. Oka match vachindi. Photo chupincharu. Software engineer, good family.Bagane unnadu. Nachadu ani cheppanu. Abbay Valla family vacharu. Ee rojullo saree evaru kattukuntunnaru cheppandi. Ainaa formality ga kattukunnanu. Ah abbay em matladaledu. Valla mom konni questions adigindi. Answer chesanu. Nenu light teeskunnanu nachaledu kavochu ani. One week tarwata call chesaru,nachanu ani. Inka manam aagutama? Plannings Anni cheseskuntam. Engagement ani marriage ani, shopping ani.
Next week abbay personal ga matladta annadu. Vellanu. MC Donald's ki vellam. Actually naku fast food ekuva GA alavatu ledu. Thanu Edo tinadaniki teeskunnadu, nenu soft drink teeskunna. Inka normal ga study gurinchi, job gurinchi, hobbies, habits, life style gurinchi matladkunnam. Antha open ga Oka new person tho nenu epudu matladaledu. Nachana ani adiganu, nachav ani cheppadu. Two days tarwata Valla parents call chesta annaru intiki rammani cheppadaniki. Ma family antha happy ga unnam. Andaru relatives ki cheppesam. Two days tarwata call chesi abbay ki nenu nachaledu ani chepparu.Thana comments entante simple ga unnanata, Jada sarigga veskoledanta, sensitive ga unnanata, outside food tinadanta, nadi pichi college Anta.
So my question is nachakunda unapudu first day cheppali. 15 days ayyakaa , ala chepte eh ammayi ainaa tolerate chestundha. Valla family ela feel avtaru. So boys don't play with feelings of girl. Nachakapothe ventane cheppandi or take some time."
Oka manishini manaspoorthiga pelli cheskovadaniki siddhamainappudu .. avathala vyakthi lo emaina chinna chinna lopalunna..sariddiddukkune thathvam undaali. This short letter is not about a girl being rejected, but about how one should be wiser and sensible enough to make a decision that will not have an adverse effect on the emotions of others - especially when it is about Marriage!
This Letter Of A Girl Who Faced Rejection Before Her Marriage Is A Must Read For Guys
