9 Differences That Explain How Marriages Used Happen Then & Now

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9 Differences That Explain How Marriages Used Happen Then & Now

Monna bore anipinchi....old family albums anni choosthunte..ma amma-nanna la pelli album kanapadindhi anamata. Ah album choosthunnapudu appatlo jarige pellilaki ...ippudu jaruguthunna pellilaki chala theda unnatlu anipinchindhi ...so , naku ala kanipinchina konni differences entante

1. Of course, Decoration:

Then:

Mostly gudilo ledha abbayi/ammayi intlo chestharu. And decorate cheyadam ante muddhabanti poolatho/maamidaakulatho thoranalu kadatharu .

Now:

We have marriage decorating people separately to decorate the manadapas and also ippudu pellilu marriage function halls lone kadha jaruguthunnayi. Theme based decorations kooda unnayi.

2. Entertainment:

Then:

Appatlo e paata kacheri , gaana bhajaana ilantivi undevi kaadhu .so , pelliki vachina varu okaritho okaru maata kaluputhu , family vishayalu share chesukuntu ala time pass chesevallu.

Now:

Ippudu chevulu pagilipoyela unna speakers petti , pakkana unnavadu yem matladuthunnado kooda artham kaakunda chese paata kacheri lu , dance show lu ..noru kattesukoni undela chesayi.

3.Food scenes:

Then:

Banthi bojanam ...vinnara asalu ? Andharu okesari kurchovadam.. vaadana chesevallu vachi vaddinchi velladam ...inka kavali ante vachi mari kosari kosari vaddinchadam ...andharu kalisi kurchoni okesari bhonchesevaaru.

Now:

Mostly buffet systems eh anamata ippudu antha . Yevariki yeppudu aakali aitea appudu velli tineyadame .

4. Food items:

Then:

Laddu , upma , uggani , inka lunch ki aitea lemon rice, sambar , paayasam .ila undevi chinna menu but full celebration feel vachela

Now:

Different cuisines, different dishes . Yenni items pedithe antha prestige/proud feels anamata.Anni tinalemu ..and ofcourse waste ayipothayi

5. Photos:

Then:

Still photographer undevaaru. Athane anni photo lu teesevaadu .and oka videographer for the video.

Now:

Pre wedding, post wedding , ila oka mini movie la chesthunnam. But its good to make memories kadha . And so we can cherish them for the rest of the life.

6. Chadhivimpulu / gifts:

Then:

Appatlo emo mari ...abbayi tarapu nunchi ..ammayi tarupu nunchi ...rendu counter lu open chesi chadivimpulu raayinchevaaru anamata . Inka gifts kindha steel bindhe lu , steel bowls ..ilativi ivvadam gamaninche untam.

Now:

Gifts are not accepted / meeru raavadame maaku mukhyam . Chadivimpulu sweekarinchabadavu...ilanti lines chadive untam kadha ?

7. Those minute detailing:

Then:

Those small thermocoal balls, shimmers , shinning things used for deocrations . Steel painted chairs and tables used for seating and dining , atta jadalu , poola pandiri

Now:

Different states nunchi tepinchina flowers, disco lights,konni sarlu plastic flowers ,plastic kurchi lu ..inka buffet ki tables avasaram ledhu

8. Those return gifts:

Then: Pelliki vellina vallaki aaku vakka kalipi oka steel plate/ box and daani meedha ichina valla peru kooda chekkinchi mari ichevalu .

Now:

Plastic box lu , ofcourse steel box lu kooda , lekunte kumkum barine lu .

9. Traditions:

Then:

5 rojula pelli kakapoyina , kaneesam moodu rojulaina ayyedhi pelli tathangam avvadaniki ..nalugu pettadam , mettelu pettadam ilantivanni follow avvadam tho

Now:

Ippudu pelli ante oka roju lo ayipoye situations kooda unnayi . Agree ? Ofcourse ,"Then" ani cheppinvaatillo , "Now" prajalu kooda ippatiki vaaduthu undachu .but yeah times has been changed and so the things . Did you feel the difference like how I felt ? If yes , please do comment and let us know too.

P.S:

Ivanni chadivina tarvutha "now" srinivasa kalyanam movie gurthochi undi unte ..mereko maaf kijiye ji .