Monna bore anipinchi....old family albums anni choosthunte..ma amma-nanna la pelli album kanapadindhi anamata. Ah album choosthunnapudu appatlo jarige pellilaki ...ippudu jaruguthunna pellilaki chala theda unnatlu anipinchindhi ...so , naku ala kanipinchina konni differences entante
1. Of course, Decoration:
Then:
Mostly gudilo ledha abbayi/ammayi intlo chestharu. And decorate cheyadam ante muddhabanti poolatho/maamidaakulatho thoranalu kadatharu .
Now:
We have marriage decorating people separately to decorate the manadapas and also ippudu pellilu marriage function halls lone kadha jaruguthunnayi. Theme based decorations kooda unnayi.
2. Entertainment:
Then:
Appatlo e paata kacheri , gaana bhajaana ilantivi undevi kaadhu .so , pelliki vachina varu okaritho okaru maata kaluputhu , family vishayalu share chesukuntu ala time pass chesevallu.
Now:
Ippudu chevulu pagilipoyela unna speakers petti , pakkana unnavadu yem matladuthunnado kooda artham kaakunda chese paata kacheri lu , dance show lu ..noru kattesukoni undela chesayi.
3.Food scenes:
Then:
Banthi bojanam ...vinnara asalu ? Andharu okesari kurchovadam.. vaadana chesevallu vachi vaddinchi velladam ...inka kavali ante vachi mari kosari kosari vaddinchadam ...andharu kalisi kurchoni okesari bhonchesevaaru.
Now:
Mostly buffet systems eh anamata ippudu antha . Yevariki yeppudu aakali aitea appudu velli tineyadame .
4. Food items:Then:
Laddu , upma , uggani , inka lunch ki aitea lemon rice, sambar , paayasam .ila undevi chinna menu but full celebration feel vachela
Now:
Different cuisines, different dishes . Yenni items pedithe antha prestige/proud feels anamata.Anni tinalemu ..and ofcourse waste ayipothayi
5. Photos:
Then:
Still photographer undevaaru. Athane anni photo lu teesevaadu .and oka videographer for the video.
Now:
Pre wedding, post wedding , ila oka mini movie la chesthunnam. But its good to make memories kadha . And so we can cherish them for the rest of the life.
6. Chadhivimpulu / gifts:
Then:
Appatlo emo mari ...abbayi tarapu nunchi ..ammayi tarupu nunchi ...rendu counter lu open chesi chadivimpulu raayinchevaaru anamata . Inka gifts kindha steel bindhe lu , steel bowls ..ilativi ivvadam gamaninche untam.
Now:
Gifts are not accepted / meeru raavadame maaku mukhyam . Chadivimpulu sweekarinchabadavu...ilanti lines chadive untam kadha ?
7. Those minute detailing:
Then:
Those small thermocoal balls, shimmers , shinning things used for deocrations . Steel painted chairs and tables used for seating and dining , atta jadalu , poola pandiri
Now:
Different states nunchi tepinchina flowers, disco lights,konni sarlu plastic flowers ,plastic kurchi lu ..inka buffet ki tables avasaram ledhu
8. Those return gifts:
Then: Pelliki vellina vallaki aaku vakka kalipi oka steel plate/ box and daani meedha ichina valla peru kooda chekkinchi mari ichevalu .
Now:
Plastic box lu , ofcourse steel box lu kooda , lekunte kumkum barine lu .
9. Traditions:
Then:
5 rojula pelli kakapoyina , kaneesam moodu rojulaina ayyedhi pelli tathangam avvadaniki ..nalugu pettadam , mettelu pettadam ilantivanni follow avvadam tho
Now:
Ippudu pelli ante oka roju lo ayipoye situations kooda unnayi . Agree ? Ofcourse ,"Then" ani cheppinvaatillo , "Now" prajalu kooda ippatiki vaaduthu undachu .but yeah times has been changed and so the things . Did you feel the difference like how I felt ? If yes , please do comment and let us know too.
P.S:
Ivanni chadivina tarvutha "now" srinivasa kalyanam movie gurthochi undi unte ..mereko maaf kijiye ji .