Break up is not end of our life, it might seem so but it is not. Adhi manalni chaala hurt chesthadi nijame but there are more interesting, happy and life changing moments to come. Love is just a part of the journey called life. Ilantivi manalni hurt chesi vellipothaayi but we need to move on. Just because we are hurt manamu aa state of mind lo stupidest things chesthaamu tarvata regret avthaamu. So here are few things you should not do after you break up:
1. Making up their mind on love/ dating Okka experience tho life maaripovachu for better or worst but aa okka experience ni base cheskoni opinions form cheskolemu kadha. Baadha obviously untadhi but aa badha ni manalni guide cheyyaniyyakudadhu. Love anedhi manaki chaala feelings kaligisthundhi, okasari baadha kaliginchindi ani second chance kuda iyyakapothe ela..?
2. Blocking them on social media Unless your ex is a psycho or creep, you don’t have to block them. Just because vaalatho break up iyyindi ani vaalani block chesthe oka temporary relief untadhi tappa inka emi use ledhu. Konchem time ichi manamu aalochisthe intha immature ga unnama manamu ani doubt vasthadi.
3. Talking bad about them Intha kante chillar pani inkokati undadhu. Manalni vadilesaaru anna kopam tho vaala character gurinchi bad ga rumours spread cheyyadam mumaatiki thappe.
4. Avoiding them at social gatherings Break up iyyaka kalavadam ante ne awkward ga untadi, malli meeru vaalani ignore chesthe inka awkward iythadi. Break up iyyaka anukokunda kalisthe utti meeku awkward kaani oka social gathering lo kalisi ignore chesthe chuttu andariki kuda awkward ga untadhi.
5. Sad statuses Break up iyyina koddi rojula varaku pedithe emmana meaning undi.. kaani aapakunda peduthune unte manamu akkade stuck iypoyi untaamu. Manam pettetappudu entha feel tho pettina chuse vaalaki chiraaku vasthadi. Aa time lo baaga deep ga anipinchina tarvata chuskoni mana meeda maname navvukuntaamu leda ooskuntaamu (spit).
6. Stalking Break up iypoyaaka kuda manamu mana ex ni social media leda baita stalk chesthunaamu ante we are not over them anesi. We should realise we are more than all this nonsense and move on!
7. Blank/ drunken calls Unlimited blank calls ledha taagesi call cheyyadam laantivi chesthu vaala life lo interfere chesthe vaalaki mana number ni block cheyyadam thappa inka vere option undadahu. Manam vaalaki ilanti calls chesina prathisaari vaalu call cut chesinaa ledha thittinaa inka ekkuva badha ga untadi, it’s like re-living the moment we broke up.
8. Dating someone else to make your ex jealous Ee pani asal one of the stupidest things you can do after a break up. Mee ex move on iypoyi unte .. ilanti panulu time waste cheyyadam tho samaanam. Kaakapothe ila jealous cheyyadaaniki meeru inkokarini vaadukuntunaaru. Akkada vaalavi kuda feelings involve iyyayi ani marchipothaamu. So ee process lo total 3 lives disturb avthynaayi.
9. Stop doing things just because they liked it Relationship lo unnapudu anni panulu kalisi chesesariki, konni panulu become ‘our things’. But break up iyyaka if we really love those things we should keep doing not because we can but because we love doing them.
10. Avoid addictions Harming yourself is not an answer to that pain. Break ups manalni entha hurt chesinaa, adhi dhaataaka inka chaala mandi mana mida hopes pettukoni manalni love chesthaaru ani gurthu pettukovaali.
