I don't know what I'm doing with my life! I don't know what’s happening in my life! My life is screwed! Ilanti thoughts miku osthunaya? Aithe ee article mikosame. Quarter life crisis ante 20-30 age group lo unavallaki oche stress, anxiety, confusion, depression and frustration ? According to clinical psychologist Alex Fowke, quarter life crisis is defined as “a period of insecurity, doubt and disappointment surrounding your career, relationships and financial situation" Endhuku life lo antha uncertainty ante? Edho kavali, inkedho cheyali ani eppudu anipisthu untadhi kabatti ? Basically, most of us don’t feel content! Reasons chala untay, andhulo konni:
1. Career I want to become a photographer! I want to travel the world! I want to become a chef! Government job, Film making, Start-up, Business, etc. Ila enno thoughts. But fate will definitely have a different plan. Tisukelli edhoka ibbandhi karamaina situation lo padesthadhi ? Problem entante manaki annitilo koncham koncham talent untadhi, edhi purthiga ochi savadhu! So life lo em avvalo telidhu. Okkosari happy gane unattu untadhi, month end ki dabbulu osthay, kani edho miss avthuna feeling. Andhulonchi frustration.
2. Love Love chesthe oka badha, cheyakapothe oka badha! Teenage lo love lo padadam dead easy. Kani dhani side effects youth loki ochake telusthay. Intlo caste antaru, career antaru, financial status antaru. Ivanni mundhe alochinchukovalsindhi, anavasaramga love chesane anipistadhi! Vidipoyevallu kondharu, ela aina intlo oppinchali ani kondharu, nachina vallu dhooram avthu badha padevallu inkondharu. Aa relationship ye form tiskuna, stress mathram pakka untadhi.
3. Education Graduation chesthunantha sepu edho pikedham, podichedham anukuntam. Masters in abroad, IIM lo MBA, London lo MD ani evevo cheyali anukuntamu. Kani chala mandhi chivarki edhoka job lo settle avtharu. Situations ala demand chesthay! Job chesthu happy ga untara? Ledhe, MBA cheyalsindhi, MS cheyalsindhi ane thoughts eppudu mind lo run avthu ibbandhi pedthuntay.
4. Marriage Anukuna time kante mundhe pelli aipovadam or expect chesina dhani kante late ga avvadam. Renditilo edhi jarigina problem ye! Vayasu lo unappudu evarnaina preminchalsindhi, ippudu happy ga vallani pelli cheskunevalamu ane thoughts kooda osthay! Inka pelli ayyaka Partners tho set kakapovadam, in laws tho set kakapovadam. Abbo, okata renda! Malli pillalu, valla chaduvulu!
5. Comparison Vadu job odhilesi business pettadu anta, ippudu lakshalo sampadisthunadu. Vadki 3 years ke 10LPA package undhi. Vadu government job lo settle aipoyadu. Dhaniki 1 year onsite opportunity ochindhi anta! Ilanti comparisons cheskuni cheskuni mental ga depress avtham. This is our biggest enemy!
6. Financial Stability Dabbu – Em adukuntadhi bhayya assalu janalatho. Ee age group lo unappudu entha sampadinchina saripodhu. House konali, flat tiskovali, pelli cheskovali, travel cheyali, inka enno enenno! We never really understand what we Need and what we Want! Okkosari okko thought. Dabbulu ekkada invest cheyalo telidhu. Inkondhariki ela save cheyalo telidhu.
7. Age itself Viti anniti madhyalo age aipotundhi ane tension okati. Junk food, unhealthy eating habits valla physical problems. Government jobs ki age aipotuntadhi, pelli ki late avtuntadhi. Kindha potta, paina batta ochesthunay. Ekkuva tinesthunam anipistadhi, I’m growing old - need to start dieting antaru! Malli ventane ee vayasu lo kakapothe inke vayasu lo tintam ani anipistadhi. Too nasty I say?
Ilantivi enno feelings/thoughts kalisi ee age group vallaki Anxiety & Depression ekkuva aipotuntadhi. Nachina pani cheskundham ante vandha addu osthay. Family responsibilities, loans, laziness, etc ? Quarter life crisis ekkuvaipothe, aa tarvatha MID LIFE CRISIS ostadhi! Ante 40-50 age group lo, ayyo nenem cheyaledhe, emi sadinchaledhe ane feelings! Ivi inka dangerous! Everyone will have their own strengths in their life, use it wisely. World is full of dreamers, but with a few of achievers. Be an achiever, plan accordingly!
