Contributed By Mounika Jaggala
Cha Cha Cha, Entandi Rao gaaru. ee younger generations anni ila paadaipothunnayi", "Entha chandalanga maatladuthunnaro chusava", "ee dabbunnolla pillallantha inthe", "kalikaalam. Aina aa ammayilade thappu. Ollu kappukokunda thirigithe jaragada mari", "Aina antha pedda thappem undi bro....ee vayasulo ivanni common kada"...... #lockerroom discussions bayatapadagaane vachina wide range of reactions lo ivi konni. Ilantivi inkenno. Ilantidedaina jaragagaane Instagram lonu, WhatsApp lonu thandopathandaluga status lu pettesi, oka rendu rojulu aalochinchi moodo roju chethulu dulipesukovadam paripaati aipoyindhi kada manaku. Aagandaagandi, ante deeni ardham nijangaane mana generation paadaipoyindana?
Kaadu. ANR gaarini adagandi, cheptharu. Ardhamayyela chepthaaru. ANR gaara? Aayana eppudo chanipoyadu kada ammay? Aayanni adagamantavemiti Antaremo. Mahanubhavulu chanipoyina vaari kala dwara eppudu brathike vuntaru. 'They live and teach through their Art'. Anduke chepthunna, ANR gaarinadagandi. Ade, Ade, aayana natinchina Sudigundaalu ane cinema ni adagandi. Mukhyanga anduloni climax ni choodandi.
Sudigundaalu movie 1968 lo vachindhi. Wayyyyyyyy back. But it talks about a very very important issue. Ee cinemalo ANR gaari kodukuni oka teenage abbayi daarunanga champuthadu : inkoka teenager kosam. Hathya rujuvavuthundhi. Kaani Court Hall lo ANR ye vaari tharaphuna vaadhisthadu. Thana kodukuni champina padihenella yuvakudiki siksha padakunda vaadhisthadu!! Enduku?
Tharwatha vache oka long monologue lo he proves how bad parenting, Parents and Friends tho unhealthy relationships, schools yokka absolute recklessness, 'rich kid phenomenon', boredom, sexual desires that are uncared for,failed marriages, kevalam samajam lo daabu darpam kosam icche party lu, chaala chinna vayasu nunde viparithamaina alchohol abuse,guidance lekapovadam/ avasaram ledu anukovadam.....etc lead to youngsters becoming monsters!
Manam teenage kids tho sex gurinchi maatladam. Adoka boothu. Masturbation is a myth!! Ika ammayila masturbation aithe sare sari. Absolutely zero talking. Sexual desires common ani kaakapothe vaatini shruthi minchakunda ela choosukovalo thelusukovaalani assalu chepparu. How else will they know? Non-consensual, mentally harming conversations with equally confused friends!!. Theliyani thanam lo friends chepparani konni saarlu, thelusukovalane kuthuhalam vunna evarini adagaalo theleeka, adigithe thidatharemo ane bayam tho addagolu maargallo inkonni saarlu information ni extract chesthu sexual urges ni theerchukovadaaniki prayathnisthunnaru.Ee #lockerroom discussions kuda alantive. They are absolutely disgusting. But kevalam vaalla vaipu maatrame velu choopisthe saripodhu. We have to introspect.
Parenting doesn't happen just like that. Adhi oka responsible baadhyata. Chaala important baadhyata. Ee ammayilu abbayilu chesindi pedda thappu. They are wrong on so many levels. But so are their communities. Valla chuttu vunna, prathi roju kalla mundu kanipinche rangula prapanchame bahusha vaallani ee illusion loki thosthondemo. Good parenting tho, nammakam tho, annitikante Mukyanga oka chinna prayatnam tho manam maarpu theesku raavochu. Atleast try cheyochu. Cheyyali.
Kaakapothe manam marchipokudani inko vishayam : Parenting annam kada ani kottadam, extreme control... Adhi marintha hanikaram. Talk! Talk with the kids. Conversations! Good, healthy, Patient conversations!! Kevalam vinadam dwara sagam maarpuni theesuku raagalamani nammagalara meeru? Nijam. Nijjanga nijam. MaheshBabu chesina cinema title antha Nijam.And.... You don't necessarily have to be a parent. Thammudi thono, chelleli thono manchi conversations ni nurture chesukovachu. Vaaritho maatladandi. Vaaru cheppedhi vinandi.Talk some sense, with them and with yourselves too.
"A child is born sinless. Not necessarily sin-proof" ee shaktivanthamaina, aalochanalni kaliginche, kadilinche dialouge tho ANR gaaru Sudigundaalu movie ki mugimpu palikaru. Mari mana kadha ku mugimpo? Yuvathi yuvakulu raakshasulla maarani, thalli thandrulu pillalatho meaningful conversations jaripe, Markulu maatrame kaakunda manasthathvalu kuda choose, itharulalo kuda choodagaligela nerpinche educational institutions vunde mugimpu, Mana kathaku vuntunda?
Vuntundi. Infact, aa mugimpuku aarambham Mana chethullone vundi. Nee chethilo. Naa chethilo. Mana pakkanunna vaallu alavaatulono porapatu gaano oka thappudu maata maatladinappudu, okarini ( ye gender aina sare ) kinchaparichela behave chesinappudu " idhi thappu ra" ani nuvvu cheppe, aa kshanam lo.
