Marriage is something where a man and a woman should work together to make it work. Kani adhento general ga pelli anagane chala varaku credit wife ki velthundi. They have their share, but oka husband kuda equal ga contribute chestharu. Oka ammayi pelli tharavatha chala sacrifices chestharu, chala adjust avtharu and chala efforts pedatharu, valla meedha boledu rules/obligations/expectations untayi antaru. Kani alaanti efforts, sacrifices and adjustments men kuda chestharu ante nammaru. Avi ento chepadanike ee article.
1. Yes, ammayilu putti perigina illu vadhilesi vastharu, but don't you think aa husband aa kottha place ni thana illu ani feel ayetattu chestharu ani. He becomes an interface between his wife and his family and makes her feel home
2. Ippudu generation lo ilaanti situation rakapoina, okappudu ee question husband ni frequent gane adigevaru. Eh ammayiki, nanna ledha husband aa anna question raadhu. Vishayam entante a man loves his mom and wife. Aa rendu compare cheyaleru, dheniki unna importance dhanike. Ilanti question adigi ibbandi peduthu untaru appudappudu.
3. Oka ammayi pelliki mundhu emi rakapoina, pellaina tharvatha chala responsibilities theeskovaalsi vasthundhi antaaru... but don't you think a man does the same thing? Responsibilities iddharu theeskuntaaru. Okalu vandithe, inkokalu saamanlu thesthaaru. Okalu illu clean chesthe inkokalu bandi clean chestharu. Anthe theda.
4. Pellaiyyaka social life miss cheskuntaru ani general ga ammayilu cheppe maata. But ala chuskunte abbayilaki kuda anthe. Pelli kaaka mundhu overnight rides chesi early ga 3 am ki vachevaallu, ippudu intlo wife wait chestundhi ani thwaraga vachestharu.
5. Oka ammayi meedha in-laws ela expectations pettukuntaaro, oka abbayi meedha kuda ammayini baaga chuskovali ani expectations untayi from his parents and in-laws as well.
6. Especially working couple ki idhi, who stays away from the family. A husband is expected to help in the house chores. But car clean cheyatam lantivi, carrying heavy stuff lantivi, a woman is never expected to share it. In case wife chesina, "Ivvani ammayi chetha cheyisthunava" ani athani meedha arustharu.
7. Oka wife thana husband ni, naku adhi kavali ani adigina antha easy ga oka husband oka wife ni naku adhi konivvu ani adagaleru. Somewhere there is this unspoken rule
8. Oka ammayi thana husband ni admire chesthe "Awwww... she loves him a lot" antaru but abbayilu chesthe pusukkuna, "Pellam kongu chaatu modugu" ani mudra Vesthaaru.
9. Oka working woman break theskunna evaru emi anaru. But at any point of time a husband cannot take a break from his job. Porapatuna theskunna, pellam ni poshinchakunda kaliga kurchunadu ano, in case wife earn chesthe, pellam dabbulu meedha untunadu ano oka maata anestharu. He is expected to earn through out his life. Job nachina nachakunna.
Nenu intha chesanu ante nenu antha chesanu anukovatam kanna, iddaru kalisi dhaani work chesthene aa relationship ki andham. You can still have a social life, you can still share your work and you can do a lot of cool stuff. Its all about working it out together.
