Contributed By GS Sahana
Their verbal meaning of fail is "to leave something undone " We all Would have left something undone in our lives that means we all have failed in our life , but this is all about failing for the first time.. Tasting our first failure is so hard and bitter and its like watching our heap of hopes and dreams collapse which we had built with lot of care and love. who'll not fail??the great thomas alva edison failed, great Einstein failed, And we all have!!Failure just shows us different ways to reach the success. as a baby we failed to walk for the first time,as a student we failed in our exams for the first time As a grown up we messed up our work,failed in our job for the first time, As a parent we failed to make our children successful..this goes on..yes we fail!! So what??what matters is how we standup and try again..
let us look how it feels when we fail for the first time..
1. When we fail for the first time this surrounds us from everywhere..untill school we might be toppers but after entering college, when we taste the failure for the first time and loose our hopes and start to feel inferior than others..mana chuttu unde valu andaru toppers la kanipicchestaru,evarevaro vacchi advise icchestu untaru,we start to think why and how the hell did I fail!! Idhe degree life lo quite common, once we fail for the first time,it takes a lot of time to recover and put our next effort by kicking that inferiority complex.
2. Failure gives a hard pat on our confidence level, not only in student life, ee pani lo ayna we need confidence to reach our destiny but Once we fail, our confidence level decrease and we start to feel that we are not fit for that work, at some stage we drop out of that work ,at that time future seems difficult.mana neighbours gurinchi chappe avasaram ledu,valu veese comments and taunts mana confidence level ni purthiga taggichesatdi,next step veyali ani unna kuda edhe cheyaleni paristithi lo untam.
3. As we all know failure gives very tough time for some people,it may lead us to take wrong and hard decisions, decisions which can make our life miserable.deene gurinchi manam roju paper la lo TV lo chustu untam,10 class student committed suicide because he failed in exams,pu student left his home cause he failed in medical entrance and so on..suicide hey annitiki solution ayyinte ee rashtram lo ee samasya undedi kaadhandi!!
4. Recently I read somewhere that most of the youths in our country are suffering from depression,i think failure is the main reason for depression and many go into depression because they think about their failure so much and can't forget it. this is quite common in love and realtionship failures.oka sari depression Loki velte malli normal ayyedi chana kastam, so people choose different ways to get away with that,some choose alcohol and try to forget about their failure and some others take some time and step up in their life by letting it go. as we all know time heals pain and it realy does...
5. Evariki undadandi ego manishi annaka ego undali..kaani how we show it is all that matters.we all keep a lot of hopes on our efforts and strength because we are the one who knows our real strengths and abilities but at some point of time this hope, awakens a little ego inside us and then we start thinking there is no way we can fail and start dreaming about all the happiness after success but the luck isn't always on our side..once we come to know that all the efforts we put is failed,our ego will get a sever blow, and we will not come out of our rooms for a week or two bothering about what others might think of us,and if they treat us like loosers our ego will get hurt.but the reality is nobody cares..and no one will give a damn about you!! Go reach the stars.
The main reason I wrote this is to give hopes for all who have failed and may fail in near future, failure is not the end but its a new start.a new you..sometimes its good to fail that is when we will know the real taste of success.
There are always two paths leading from every situation. Either you can accept your failure and try to achieve something or you can fret all about it and never move on. chose the former. It is your choices, far more than your abilities,that shows who you really are. It doesn't do to dwell on failures and forger to live.
Failure isn't that bad..most of the time one fails because he thinks less of himself or think others think less of himself but no one Cares..you are the only one who has to care,but once we fail its most important to stand up and try again, not to dig deep and fall into that and fail again..most people are unable to recover from their failure because all they think is about their failure and are unwilling to accept the fact that they have failed, sometimes it's good to forget and move on in your life and start accepting the failure and start to make peace with it then only you can get your Peace of mind back.
And yeah, we all have failed more than once now. Not talking about exams but in all aspects of life. But every time we fail, we always find a new way to success.
Sometimes you gotta fall before you fly. It is only in darkness that you appreciate light. Failed once? Do it again, try till you reach sucess and there is so much to learn from it...
PS: this article is a blend feelings of me and my friends who also have failed in their life for the first time.
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