Why Would A Girl Friendzone You?

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Why Would A Girl Friendzone You?

Contributed by Abhignya V

Well I’m back with another Friday article and it always amuses me to understand and address most men’s inquisitive thoughts that don’t have an appropriate answer from a women’s perspective. Chala mandi abbailu think that women are tough to understand. They’re like one big puzzle or a math equation that’s tough to crack. Partially idi true iena, as a woman I’d just give all the men reading this article an advice- It’s not always about understanding them, it’s more about your reaction to a lot of things that they do. Confusing enough? Adantha kaadu, mee life lo edo point lo you must have fallen for a girl but she ended up friendzoning you and you must have thought “Arey! Why did she choose that heart breaker over me?” or “Antha baundi ga? Why did she friendzone me?” . So here I am telling you few key points as to why a woman/girl would friendzone a man/boy.

Put your seat belts on-

1. If you’re not mysterious enough

Oka ammai in general chala attention to detail isthudi. So she probably understands your behavioral pattern and predicts everything way ahead. So, oka 4-5 situations lo mi reaction gamaninchi meeru elanti vaaro she’ll understand. Ah factor mysterious lekapotey, she won’t be interested to know you more. Inka clear ga explain cheyali ante, jalsa movie lo Ileana cheppinattu adiviki park ki una theda, basically! So be the puzzle, keep her guessing more about your personality and she’ll be interested to go on more dates with you.

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2. Different interests

Opposite poles attract ana concept ki strong believer nenu. But on the contrary, asal oka common ground ey lekapotey matladadaniki or discuss cheyataniki or conversations munduki theskeldaniki em undadu. Ee process lo she knows both of you can’t agree on so many things or talk on so many things, thanu aa complications obviously avoid cheyalani try chesthundi, so eventually she’d just keep it less complicated and friendly. This does not have to be sports or movies but can also mean that you both want/expect different things from life and demotivate avvodu ani probably one of you wants this to be a casual friendship.

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3. A bizzare past:

Ee generation of hearts breaks and stories lo somewhere most of us have become emotionally unavailable. Chala mandiki or ammailaki in this case, heart break or a heart broken past oka phobia laga iepoyi, they’d want to avoid anything that would not put them in that same spot. So meeru enni pick up lines esina, entha upfront ga “nenu ala undadu, I’ll take care better than your ex” ani cheppina, that girl might not want to take that risk because it has scared her deep and she does not want to lose the friendship/bond you share at that moment.

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4. Physical traits:

I don’t want to lie about it, but sometimes how physically appealing you are anedi kuda chustharu ammailu. Let me tell you inkoncham in a better way.. How you look will attract them, but how you are inside will keep them. So oka correct balance and combination of beauty inside laga unte, it’s going to be bonus. How you groom yourself indirectly says a lot about you as well. Indaka chepinattu how women give attention to detail lo, ee point kuda cover authundi. So eventually, she’d think that- if you’re able to take care of your body, you’d take care of other minute important things. You’re a reflection of your actions kada? Otherwise oka mottikai kotti “Reii aa gollu cut chesko” ani cheppi friendzone chesthundi. Also, I also made video on my channel “Kiraak Style” in the same line. Ee link meeda click chesi, learn more about how to attract women.

5. Emotional Availability:

Women as such are made with a lot of feelings and emotions that makes them smart. They also see and approach things two ways lo- Emotionally and logically. Ala vallu anni section cheskoni oka situation ki okko la react autharu. Most of the times, their reaction will have emotional touch to it. When we come to men, they’re wired inkoncham different. Their reactions are mostly logical and practical. So ee balance chala important for any girl to rely on you. If a man is too emotional also, he might be friend-zoned. Oka right amount of emotional stability that does not make her question her perception or thought and also be there for her should help you break that bubble of friendzone.

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6. Way too funny:

Undoubtedly women are attracted lo men who are humorous. Oka famous study on this also proves why. It said that women overthink a lot on day to day basis and end up over stressing and whenever they meet someone who’s making her laugh, she’d eventually feel stress free, lite and opened up and would want to spend more time with you and get attracted. But deeniki kuda oka limit undi. If you’re making fun of every other thing excessive ga, there are high chances she’d not take you seriously and think you’re silly. She might end up wanting to just have a silly friend rather than a silly boyfriend.

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Person lo person ila factors keep changing but somewhere down the lane most of them end up being related to the above points. Too much serious information to take in? :P But next time if you’re wanting to take a girl out on a date, you know what things to work on to not be friendzoned. Emantaru? :P Leave in the comments section below as to how many times you’ve been friendzoned / how many times you have friendzoned and I’ll see you next Friday