Contributed By Harika Mahalakshmi.
There are so many changes that occur in the life of a girl after marriage. Ela aithe “Marriage is Union of two souls deeply in Love” antaaro alage ammayi life lo chaala changes vasthayi antaru. Avi Body lo kaavacchu, Behavior lo kaavacchu, leka vaddu le mere chadavandi. P.S: Note that all women might not experience same, but they experience little according to these at any stage.
1. Responsibilities Appati varaku amma carriage isthe pattukellatam, edhaina chepthe vinakpovadam chestham..asalu etuvanti tensions lekunda chaala care free ga gadipestham. Amma eppudina ' pelli chesthe badhyaatha vasthundi' ante kopam ga chustam, but marriage aithe adhe nijam authundi. Mana responsibility ae kaadhu, vacchina vadi responsibility kuda maname chusukovali, inka venakla family elago untundi adi vere vishayam.
2. “I” to “We” Nenu is replaced by Manamu. Ippati varaku edhaina sare nakaosam, naaku ishtam, nenu chesukuntanu ante ippudemo maa ishtam, maa kosam anela maaripothundi. Maa house, Maa favorite anaali mari…
3. Patience Ippati varaku kopam vasthe amma meeda antha yetthu na lestham. Amma emaina ante chaalu ventane reaction istham. Kaani attharintlo kuda alane unta ante mari… chinna chinna issues kuda peddavayyi plant size lo perigi pothayi. Entha patience unte antha Peacefulness untundhi.
4. Aachi Toochi Speaking Ippati varaku amme kadhaa ani edhi padithe adhi maatladestham. Chaala free ga anni adigestham kaani inka ala kudaradu. Alaa ani akkada maatladakudadhu ani kaadhu, notiki entha vasthe antha maatladakudadhu. Okatiki padhi saarlu kadhu kaani, konchem aachi toochi maatladali.
5. Priorities Yeah, chaala Priorities maaripothayi mari..office lo late night shifts cheyyalemu, late night No Parties. No hangouts, Big NO to late arrivals. Mana Priority list lo Husband Priorities kuda add authayi kadhaa mari. Career kuda family taruvathe. Eppudu amma daggara sunrise chusi undam kani ikkada tappadhu mari.. ade priority ante..
6. Better communicator Yes, you become a better communicator. Marriage ki mundhu daddy ni direct ae permission adagali anna..anni amme carry cheyyali. Party aina, excursion aina, team outing aina edhi aina. Kaani ikakda endhuko chaala dhairyam vasthundi husband ni adagali ante. Aina maatlade appudu alochistham kadha so konchem improve ayyenatte. Manake automatic ga em maatladalo ela maatladithe oppukuntaro telusthundhi..
7. Friends Tho Meetings Ippatiki varuku amma ki cheppi naanna ni oppinchi elago crazy crazy panulu chesestham. Kaani ikkada ala kadhe... Friends ni kalavaali ante oka date set chesukuni, panulu em pettukokunda, pakkaga plan chesukovali. Appudu kuda ok avutundho ledho cheppalem. You are tried of hearing “ Nuvvu ee madhya baaga busy aipoyave, pellayyaka..”. How crazy……
8. “Your” dreams changes to “Our” Dreams Marriage chesukokapothe mew dreams anni fulfill authayi ani kaadhu, avvavani kaadhu. Dreams vadhileyyali ani kudaa kaadhu. Kaakapothe husband dreams anni mana dreams authayi. Me dreams ki inko dreamer join authadu. Iddarki oke dreams untdakapoyina parledhu, okari dreams ki okaru support chesukuntaru annamata. Combine studies laaga combine dreams ante entha baguntundho kadha..
9. Special Attention at “HOME” Appati varaku em raavu. "Ee pani nerchuko, aa pani nerchuko. Ila aithe chaala kashtam pelli ayyaka.. mee attha garu ilane unte bayataki gentesthundi" ane vallu, ippudu manam intiki velthe chala varieties chestaru ento mari. Asalu kitchen loki enter ae avvanivvaru. They pamper you the most. meeko special attention mari..why amma???
10. You Feel More “Secured” Ante amma nanna dhaggara insecure ani kadhu. Ikkada marriage ki mundhu manam chaala saarlu lonely ga feel autham, mana baadhalu share chesukovadaniki evaru leru anukuntam. Chaala sarlu decision tesukovadaniki bhayapadatham. Parents kuda nee istam ante kashtam. Maa istam ante baadha. Kani ikkada chala careful ga guidance untundi. Manaki em vachina easy ga chupincheyachu happiness, sarrow, inka emaina sare.
